From the recording Give'em What They Want

A country song; as my friend Walt Wilkins likes to say, "a shore-nuff country song".
Made better by the harmony vocal of Natalie Langlinais. (I'm gonna make a record on her some day).
Jon Hahn on drums. 

Lyrics

Where and When (5:08)
--Patterson Barrett ©2017 (BMI) Criminal Tunes
 
Walking home this evening, well it’s happening again
I just can’t stop this feeling when I remember the where and when
 
Now this sorrow seems familiar, but I don’t feel it every day
I guess it’s just a part of life, It’s made me stronger in a way
You dismantled my heart part and parcel
And I don’t know if I’ll ever love again
Now my mind’s a little hazy about what you had to say to me
But I remember the where and when
 
It was in the park near the river, you know that one downtown
We used to go there after work sometimes, hold hands and watch the sun go down
There were people all around us walking dogs and riding bikes
And there’s a small wooden bench down there by the shore
Or at least there used to be---I don’t go there anymore
 
It was a bright crisp clear sunny day in the very beginning of fall
I was just heading home from the office andI was happy when I got your call
You said meet me at our usual place and I wonder thinking back on it now
Why I never even detected a trace of something strange in your voice somehow
 
Now this sorrow seems familiar, but I don’t feel it every day
I guess it’s just a part of life, It’s made me stronger in a way
You dismantled my heart part and parcel
And I don’t know if I’ll ever love again
Now my mind’s a little hazy about what you had to say to me
But I remember the where and when
 
We sat down and you were restless, but I didn’t notice it then
All I could see was your beautiful hair brushed aside by a warm gentle wind
And you said something, I don’t know what, and all I could do was stare And when the moment arrived I thought I saw in your eye, a hint of a tear forming there
 
Now this sorrow seems familiar, but I don’t feel it every day
I guess it’s just a part of life, It’s made me stronger in a way
You dismantled my heart part and parcel
And I don’t know if I’ll ever love again
Now my mind’s a little hazy about what you had to say to me
But I remember the where and when
I still remember just where and when
So clearly---I remember the where and when